Testimonials From Parents Who Attended Courses
"You have helped me to learn that while the conflict from my ex may never stop, I can change. The change provided a powerful release and renewed focus in what brought me to the class- and what is most important – my children. I’ve replaced the fears that my children will be irreversibly harmed, and stopped the fears that my ex will turn them away from me. I can now ensure that this won’t happen using what I have learned. It has provided a turning point for a new direction and a way to make an out of control situation manageable." -- J. S.
"I truly enjoyed participating in your parenting course. When I initially enrolled (voluntarily), I was expecting some "lame" class but it turned out I was COMPLETELY wrong! The information, personal experience, suggestions, and humor that you brought to each of the sessions was unique and sincere. The class was never dull and you did a great job delivering the information. The class was therapeutic and entertaining to say the least.
Even if a person was not ordered to attend your class but having divorce issues, I would highly suggest they attend. You taught us how to disconnect from the Ex and focus on the children. I will always remember when you discussed Wiley Coyote and the Roadrunner- you get in and you get out!! Stringing Pearls is also a brilliant concept that ALL divorced parents should focus on and not just dwell on what the Ex might do next. "Mom's world and Dad's world" is the best approach for raising kids. I learned there is no need to inquire with the children about what they did on the other parent's time. I appreciated your honesty when you said that the battle was going to be won in your heart and in your mind and NOT in the courtroom." -- B. I.
"When I started to use the knowledge I got from the course, the results were immediate for both me and my son. You gave me the freedom to stop being manipulated and bullied. After completing all 12 classes, I can say, I am parenting to the 100th power. Recognizing how my reaction to the conflict kept the conflict going was huge for me. I no longer respond with fear or the feeling of being forced to fight. I actually find myself laughing out loud when the attacks come my way. My son has done better in school since this time. He's getting academic awards. He now has a motivation that I yearned to see. We are planning our time together before he even leaves for his dads. Now finally, I am divorced emotionally, as well as legally. For the first time, I am not afraid. I know, I am the best parent with the strongest commitment and have 100 % desire to raise a solid, joyous, independent child. It is so great to feel and be empowered. To take that knowledge you gave me and apply it with wisdom and courage. No longer am I afraid of the effects of this divorce on my son. Thank you again for being the answer to many days of prayer." -- M.S.
"I don't know if I can articulate sufficiently the real joy that has entered into my life because of the change in perception I've had from this course. It's diminished the sadness when returning our son after my visits, put an end to my dwelling on "the problem" and taught me enumerable skills to finally get back to life. The best part is really seeing an increase in our son's happiness! Those success stories you told describing great parents with infinite endurance really inspired me. Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Honestly, I was expecting a class that just bashed bad parents! I never would have imagined that it was really a manual for ending conflict and moving way beyond to a place of parental greatness. I've gathered alot more tools to use on this most important of projects, raisng our precious little plant into a solid tree. I'm exited about learning that by disengaging from the "fight" and just focusing on our child, it will lead to the other parent changing. I care very deeply about the mother of our child, for better or worse she is the only mom our son will ever have. The "dirt" I've taken to court on her was truly aimed at "saving" her by forcing help upon her, but I now realize the error of that approach. I want our son to have two strong parents and still feel that's possible. I've learned from Dr. Stacer's wisdom and experience that my former efforts were only perpetuating our problem, all along our child was suffering. I will remain steadfast in my resolve to end the conflict by remaining disengaged from the battle and pray that the other parent will begin to heal. This class not only rates a 10, but pound for pound is the most helpful class I've had in my life!" A. K.